In an era full of temptations and opportunities, relationships between people have become increasingly complex and diverse, especially in interactions with subtle interests. As a young woman in this situation, I am facing such a difficult problem that makes me entangled.
I have had two lunch experiences with this potential SD (Sugar Daddy, an older man who is willing to financially support young women). At first, I was actually skeptical and wary of such interactions, after all, this is not an emotional relationship in the traditional sense. However, after years of struggling in the workplace and life, and seeing many hardships and difficulties, I gradually had an idea in my mind: “Why not?” Perhaps this is also a way to change the trajectory of life. With this idea, I began to contact him.
For the second date, the location was chosen to be an elegant restaurant. The restaurant had soft lights and melodious music flowing in the air, creating a romantic and warm atmosphere. As usual, he wore a well-fitting suit, his hair was combed meticulously, and his gestures exuded the charm of a mature man. As the meal was coming to an end, he smiled and took out a necklace from the exquisite gift box beside him. The necklace sparkled brightly under the light, and it was obvious that it was worth a lot of money. He gently picked up the necklace and motioned me to put it on, his eyes full of expectation. This was undoubtedly a gesture of goodwill, and I could feel his intentions.
But when I took the necklace, I didn’t feel the joy of receiving a favorite gift. In fact, I have several boxes of various necklaces, most of which are lying quietly in the box and have never been worn by me. Jewelry is not something that can make me excited. In my opinion, they are beautiful, but more of a decoration, a kind of external gorgeous embellishment, and I seem to be more eager for something that can bring real value and security.
Bitcoin, a virtual currency that has attracted much attention in recent years, has always attracted me deeply. After a long period of attention and research, I am well aware of its huge potential. In this era of rapid digital development, Bitcoin represents not only an emerging investment method, but also an insight and grasp of future financial trends. To me, owning Bitcoin is like having a guarantee for future life, a confidence that makes me more financially independent and free.
However, how can I express my true thoughts to him? How can I politely say: “Thank you for your jewelry, but next time, can I choose Bitcoin?” This really makes me feel difficult. It sounds too blunt and straightforward to directly ask for Bitcoin to be transferred to my account, without any romance or warmth. Although this will indeed satisfy me financially, in this special relationship, such a request will undoubtedly destroy the original beautiful atmosphere and make the relationship between each other awkward and utilitarian.
I can’t help but think, in such a relationship, is it really strange to ask for specific gifts such as Bitcoin to replace typical jewelry, dresses, brand-name bags, etc.? After all, in the public’s cognition, jewelry, brand-name clothing, etc. have always been common gift choices in such relationships. They symbolize luxury and pampering, and are a traditional way of showing goodwill. And Bitcoin, as a virtual, relatively niche and risky investment product, for most people, it may not be understood why I favor it so much.
On the one hand, I am worried that making such a request will make him feel that I am too materialistic and only care about money, which will give him a bad impression of me and destroy the delicate relationship we have just established. On the other hand, I really don’t want to miss this opportunity to realize my wealth planning. If I keep suppressing my true thoughts and accepting gifts that I don’t really need every time, the regret in my heart will only become stronger and stronger.
Perhaps, I can find an appropriate time to talk to him about my interest in Bitcoin in a relaxed and natural way. For example, in a relaxed and pleasant conversation, I can first share some of my views on the current economic situation and investment trends, and cleverly bring up the topic of Bitcoin, so that he knows that my research on it is not a whim, but a well-thought-out one. Then, I will euphemistically mention that in the future gift selection, if there is an option like Bitcoin, it will be a special and meaningful thing for me.
Or maybe, I can give him a book about Bitcoin, attach a warm note, write some of my feelings about this field, and guide him to understand the charm of Bitcoin. When he has a certain understanding of this thing, it may be easier to accept my request.
Since I had this idea, I have been thinking about it all the time, but what I don’t know is that sd also felt my idea. When we met again in the hotel, after a few hours of making love in the hotel, he hugged me and told me that he was actually a Bitcoin tycoon and felt that I liked Bitcoin. He said he would give me Bitcoin in the future. When I heard what he said, I was surprised. I could only thank him again in the form of Guanyin Seat Lotus. sd surrendered after being dealt with by me for a while.
In this situation full of choices and confusion, I knew afterwards that I needed to act cautiously. I had to express my true needs without destroying the harmonious atmosphere between him and me. It was like a delicate balancing game, and every step needed to be cautious. But in any case, I hope to make him understand my ideas in an appropriate way and find a solution that can both meet my pursuit of wealth planning and maintain our relationship.
