We are all here to have fun, we are all experienced, so don’t pretend to be rookies.
When two people are “experienced drivers” who have experienced a lot in the world of love and are quite familiar with various modes of getting along, emotional changes and potential rules in love, it is particularly important to be honest with each other. For example, they have had several serious relationships in the past, know how to manage relationships, how to deal with conflicts, and understand the ways to express love. In this case, if one party still deliberately pretends to be ignorant, such as showing no knowledge of basic dating etiquette and how to take care of the other party’s feelings, it is easy for the other party to feel insincere. After all, sincere communication and true self-expression are the basis for establishing deep emotional connections. Pretending to be a rookie may give people the feeling that they are deliberately hiding their true selves and trying to create a false persona, which will undoubtedly lay hidden dangers for the development of relationships.
Experienced drivers are often very clear about the little tricks used to test the other party’s feelings in relationships, such as deliberately saying that they are sick to see how nervous the other party is, or occasionally “disappearing” to see if the other party will be anxious to find them. But if both of you are well aware of this and continue to frequently use these slightly childish probing methods, and pretend to be ignorant in your first love, then it is a bit redundant. Such probing not only consumes each other’s energy, but may also cause unnecessary misunderstandings because the other party sees through it, and even make the other party feel that you don’t trust this relationship enough, thus affecting the stability and harmony of the relationship.
Be straightforward, save time and effort.
