Recently, I have encountered a difficult problem that has left me extremely conflicted.
I met a man who has excellent conditions in all aspects. He suggested to me that I could be his sugar treasure. These days, I feel like there are two little people fighting in my heart, and I can’t make up my mind.
If you agree to be his sugar treasure, life seems to instantly enter an “upgrade” mode. Economically, it is definitely a significant improvement. He promised to give me a generous living allowance, enough for me to easily pay rent, buy my favorite big brand clothes, and no longer worry about end of month bills. The high-end restaurants that I couldn’t bear to go to before, and the travel that I couldn’t even imagine, can all be easily realized. I can freely choose products in bustling shopping malls and enjoy the thrill of not having to look at prices to dare to buy.
At the same time, one can have access to different social circles. Following him, I can visit various high-end places and meet elites from all walks of life. Perhaps we can take this opportunity to expand our network and lay a foundation for our future development. Imagine communicating with successful people at those luxurious dinners, perhaps gaining unique opportunities to learn a lot of knowledge and experience that is difficult to access in ordinary life.
In terms of self-improvement, he is willing to sponsor me to learn various skill courses, whether it is dance classes that enhance my temperament or foreign language training that is helpful for career development. I can use these resources to become better myself.
But behind everything that seems beautiful, there are also many worrying aspects. Firstly, this relationship is essentially based on material exchange, and it always feels a bit less pure. I am afraid that in this process, I will gradually lose myself, become materialistic, and lose my original values and pursuits.
Emotionally, one is prone to falling into difficulties. Although I knew from the beginning that this was not a traditional romantic relationship, everyone has emotions. After spending time together, if I were to show my sincerity and he only sees me as a character in this relationship, how painful it would be for me. Furthermore, this relationship is more or less controversial in social concepts. How should I face the gaze of my family and friends around me if they find out?
So, I’m really conflicted, should I agree to be his sugar treasure? Dear friends, if it were you, how would you choose? Should we bravely seize this seemingly life changing opportunity, or stick to our original life path and pursue our dreams through our own efforts?
