SB’s physical attractiveness seems to be a topic that cannot be avoided. As a woman whose figure is often praised as “10” points, but whose face is not so outstanding, I have always had a question in my mind: For SDs, is the face more important or the figure more important? I think I am pretty, but I am just curious about which of the two can prevail in the SD’s consideration criteria.
Only physical attractiveness does not involve personality. After all, personality is another complex and important dimension, and what I want to focus on at this moment is the simple external factors.
Some people think that the face is more important. Their reason is that, just like in ordinary aesthetics, a delicate face with good-looking abdominal muscles can leave a deep impression on people even if the overall figure is not particularly outstanding. It seems that the charm of the face has a magical power that can make up for the shortcomings of the figure to a certain extent.
However, there are also many people who hold the opposite view. They think that a strong body can almost overwhelm everything. Imagine that hot and curvy SB, just standing there, can exude an indescribable attraction that makes people unable to look away. In their view, the advantage of body shape can instantly catch the SD’s eyes and become a very impactful attraction.
And I also heard a more compromise view that some people think that a pretty face and a charming smile are as important as a slim or fit body. After all, for SD, why choose to be with a SB with a pretty face but a loose and sloppy body? By the same token, why should you be with a SB with a hot body but a plain face? After all, many SDs are far above the average in terms of their own conditions, whether in terms of economic strength or other aspects, and the resources and enjoyment they provide are far beyond ordinary people, so naturally they expect to get a matching return from SB. They have enough capital to be picky, so they are more demanding on the appearance of SB.
In my opinion, if you want to be a successful SB, both face and body are actually indispensable. Moreover, it is not just limited to appearance, personality also plays a key role. In my eyes, a real SB must be a triple threat of face, figure and personality. There are so many beautiful women in this world. In this competitive environment, if you want to stand out, you must develop in all aspects.
Take my own experience as an example. I have dated several SDs who are very attractive in traditional aesthetic concepts. They may have outstanding appearance and rich financial conditions, and seem to be perfect at first glance. However, after getting along with them, I found that if their personality is disgusting, they cannot stimulate me on the spiritual level during communication, and I cannot feel the collision of ideas, then even if their external conditions are good, this relationship will become boring. In fact, this rule applies not only to the relationship between SB and SD, but also to ordinary vanilla dating. Only one-sidedly prioritizing physical attraction and ignoring the fit of personality and spiritual level often makes many dates unpleasant and difficult to establish a truly solid and pleasant relationship.
For example, I once met an SD. When we first met, he was attracted by my figure, and I also thought he had good external conditions. But as the communication deepened, I found that he was very conceited, always self-centered, and didn’t care about my thoughts and feelings. Every time we chatted, he just showed off his achievements and didn’t give me a chance to express myself. This way of getting along made me feel extremely depressed. Even though he had good financial strength and appearance, the relationship ended in failure.
Another time, I came into contact with another SD. He had an ordinary figure and was not particularly outstanding in appearance, but he had a humorous personality and rich knowledge reserves. During our communication, he always attracted me with unique insights and interesting stories, which made me ignore his shortcomings in appearance. These two completely different experiences made me deeply realize that whether in a relationship with a diabetic friend or an ordinary relationship, it is difficult to get a long-term and beautiful experience if you only focus on one aspect.
So, for SBs, don’t blindly think that one of the face or figure is more important. While working hard to improve your appearance, you must not ignore the cultivation of your personality. Only when these three elements reach a balance can we really attract the right SD in this special circle and establish a relationship that not only satisfies material needs but also gains emotionally and spiritually. After all, in the process of pursuing this special relationship, we all hope to find someone who truly appreciates us and is compatible with us, rather than just establishing a short and shallow connection based on a single external factor.
