Lately, I’ve noticed something that’s both frustrating and concerning: it seems like many men don’t take the risk of STDs seriously, especially when it comes to using protection. If I don’t explicitly insist on it, most of the guys I meet won’t even consider putting on protection. And what’s even more alarming? The growing trend of guys wanting unprotected sex, like it’s no big deal.
This isn’t just happening with exclusive partners, either. It’s clear that many men engage in these behaviors with multiple partners. Sure, men might not face the same level of physical complications from infections, but the impact on women can be severe—far worse than a course of antibiotics could fix.
For women, the risks are real and terrifying. We’re talking about situations that can escalate to life-altering outcomes, like surgeries to remove the uterus or other long-term health consequences. And let’s not forget, regularly getting tested every three to six months doesn’t make you invincible. If you’re having unprotected sex with multiple partners between tests, you’re still putting yourself and others at risk.
What’s heartbreaking is that these risks aren’t always obvious to everyone involved. If men cared even a little about the potential harm or damage they could cause, they might think twice before dismissing the importance of protection.
At the end of the day, it’s not just about personal responsibility—it’s about caring for the well-being of the people you’re intimate with. So, please, let’s all be more mindful of the risks we’re taking and the potential consequences of those choices.
